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Opening first in Bengaluru, on Android. iPhone comes later. Free to join, for adults 18 and over.

An AI matchmaker for people in Bengaluru who want something serious

No swiping. A few introductions to verified people who fit you both ways, and a chat only when you both say yes.

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Opening first in Bengaluru, on Android. iPhone comes later. Free to join, for adults 18 and over.

Open to adults of every gender and orientation.

Asha, 31 Passed a live selfie check that matches their photos

Why we suggested this

You’re both looking for a long-term relationship that could lead to marriage, and you both enjoy cooking and getting outdoors.

What do you enjoy doing in your free time?

Trekking and the outdoors, Cooking, Live music

Yes, introduce us
No, thanks

They only find out if you both say yes.

An example introduction card. Asha is fictional; real cards show the member’s own photos.

A feed, or one introduction

Swipe apps hand you a feed to sort through. We send a few introductions, each with a plain reason. Drag to see the difference.

A swipe feed: one profile after another, and you sort through them.

An introduction: one person who fits you both ways, a plain reason why, and a chat only if you both say yes.

A generic feed, not any real app. Asha is an example.

From sign-up to a first chat

Fixed rules check that you fit each other both ways. During our pilot, a person checks every introduction before it reaches you.

Example screens. The people are fictional.

  1. Show you’re real

    A phone check and a live selfie check of about 20 seconds. We don’t keep the video.

  2. Tell us what matters

    Short questions, one per screen. Say how much each one matters, and skip what doesn’t.

  3. Talk with the AI, if you like

    A few follow-up questions, one at a time. Skip any, or ask why it’s asking.

  4. Check what it understood

    What you said sits apart from what the AI understood. Confirm it, fix it or delete it.

  5. Get an introduction

    Only when you fit each other both ways, with a plain reason why.

  6. Both say yes, then talk

    You have 7 days to answer. They only find out if you both say yes.

Every step in detail

Everyone shows they’re real

Every member passes a phone check and a live selfie check of about 20 seconds. One face can hold only one account, and we don’t keep the video. It shows someone is real, not how they’ll behave.

How verification works

Now, a quick selfie check

Thanks, you’re verified as a real person.

Say what matters, and how much

Short questions, one per screen. Try one: pick an answer, then how much it matters in a partner. In the app, you then choose which answers would be fine.

How matching works

How do you eat?
Which of these would be fine in a partner?

This is about the people we introduce you to.

Diet won’t count either way when we look for people for you.

People whose diet fits rank a little higher for you. Nobody is ruled out.

People whose diet fits rank higher for you, twice as much as nice to have. Nobody is ruled out.

Dealbreakers are firm: we won’t introduce anyone who doesn’t fit, or who hasn’t answered. You can have at most 3.

Talk with the AI, if you like

It asks a few follow-up questions, one at a time, and you can stop whenever you like. It never sees your name, phone number or photos, and it never chats as you.

How our AI matchmaking works

AI matchmaker

You’re talking to an AI. A person still reviews every introduction.

  1. What would make the first few weeks of getting to know someone feel right to you?
  2. Meeting in person early. I lose interest in long chats that go nowhere.
  3. That’s clear, thank you. On a usual weekday, is there time for a short meet-up after work?
  4. So far we’ve noted (you’ll confirm these on your profile): Prefers to meet in person early on

Tap any of these to see what it does.

Skip
You send “I’d rather skip this one.” The AI moves on and never asks about that topic again.
Why are you asking?
The AI tells you why it asked that question, then you answer, skip or carry on.
That’s not quite right
You say what’s not quite right in your own words. The AI asks a neutral question or moves on. It never argues.
Save and stop
Keeps what you’ve said so far and takes you to your profile, where you confirm, fix or delete each note.

An example conversation. “Remember this conversation” is off by default: when it’s off, we delete it once you finish.

You choose what others see

Every answer that could go on your card starts off. Turn on only what you want to share. Religion and caste are never on a card.

Privacy and safety

Ravi’s profile, “You told us” (an example)

  • What are you looking for right now?

    A long-term relationship that could lead to marriage

  • How do you eat?

    Vegetarian, with eggs

  • What do you enjoy doing in your free time?

    Reading, Live music, Travel

  • What is your religion, if any?

    Never on your card

  • Your caste or community, if you want it considered

    Never on your card

Ravi’s introduction card, as others see it

Ravi, 33 Passed a live selfie check that matches their photos

What are you looking for right now?

A long-term relationship that could lead to marriage

How do you eat?

Vegetarian, with eggs

What do you enjoy doing in your free time?

Reading, Live music, Travel

No answers shared yet. Turn on a switch to add one.

Ravi is an example. Religion and caste never appear on any card.

Fit has to work both ways

We check how well they fit what you want, and how well you fit what they want. Move the sliders to see which one counts.

How matching works, step by step

80
45

The pair’s priority

Set by the lower side: 45 out of 100. However keen one side is, the pair waits behind pairs where both sides fit.

An illustration: members never see a score. A pair is also only suggested if you pass each other’s dealbreakers, reach a minimum score together and are each in the other’s top 5 (currently).

Say yes, privately

You each decide on your own. Try both phones.

Your phone

Asha, 31 (an example)

You both said yes
Your chat with Asha is open.

Asha’s phone

Ravi, 33 (you, in this example)

You both said yes
Your chat with Ravi is open.

Neither of you sees the other’s answer until you both say yes. If either says no, the introduction simply ends for both, and nobody is told who said no. You have 7 days to answer.

How it compares

MeAndWho Club compared with common ways to meet a partner in India, November 2026
MeAndWho Club Swipe apps Matrimony sites Personal matchmakers
How you meet people A few introductions, only when there is a good fit You browse and swipe through a feed You search profiles and send interests A matchmaker shortlists for you
Who is checked Everyone: phone, live selfie, one face per account Varies by app; in India, Tinder and Hinge now ask new users for a video selfie Varies by site; ID checks are offered, not always required Depends on the matchmaker
Cost to start Free to join; pay only once there are enough suitable people for you Free, with paid upgrades Free to browse, paid to contact Usually a fee up front

Other services change often; this is how they describe themselves as of November 2026. Tinder and Hinge are trademarks of their owners, and MeAndWho Club is not affiliated with them.

Detailed comparisons, with sources

Questions people ask first

What is MeAndWho Club?

MeAndWho Club is an AI-assisted matchmaker for verified adults in Bengaluru who want a serious relationship. You don’t browse or swipe. You answer a short set of questions and, if you like, talk with an AI matchmaker about what matters to you. When someone fits what you both want, we suggest an introduction. A chat opens only when you both say yes. See how it works.

How is MeAndWho Club different from dating apps like Tinder, Bumble or Hinge?

MeAndWho Club has no feed to swipe and no profiles to browse: instead, we suggest a few introductions, each checked from both sides. You’re introduced only when you pass each other’s firm filters and you’re each in the other’s top 5 (currently). Every member has passed a live selfie check, each introduction says in plain words why we suggested it, and a chat opens only when you both say yes. See how we compare.

Does the AI decide who I meet?

No, the AI doesn’t decide who you meet: matching runs on your answers and preferences using fixed rules, checked in both directions, and the AI doesn’t set the score. During our pilot a person reviews every introduction before it reaches you, and no chat opens unless you and the other person both say yes. The AI asks follow-up questions, suggests notes for you to confirm and writes the reason for each introduction. See how matching works.

Is MeAndWho Club free?

Joining is free: signing up, verifying, answering the questions and talking with the AI matchmaker. A paid membership is offered only once at least 15 suitable, verified people are looking for someone like you (a current setting), and introductions stay free for 14 days after it is first offered. The price is shown in your app store before you buy, and you can cancel any time. See membership.

When does MeAndWho Club open?

MeAndWho Club is getting ready to open in Bengaluru, first on Android through Google Play, with iPhone to follow. It isn’t in the app stores yet, and there is no fixed launch date. Get early access and we’ll let you know when it opens. Until then, you can read how it works.

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