Anthropic provides the AI as a service, in the same way Amazon Web Services provides our
hosting. Neither company owns or runs MeAndWho Club, and naming them here doesn’t mean they
endorse it.
The AI does the listening and the explaining: it asks optional follow-up questions, suggests
notes about you for you to confirm, turns a ChatGPT summary you paste into suggested notes,
writes the plain reason on each introduction and suggests first-date ideas after you both
say yes. Fixed rules and a person do the deciding. The AI doesn’t calculate the match score
or decide who you meet, it never chats for you, and it never sees your name, phone number or
photos.
Our database, your photos and your face pattern are kept on Amazon Web Services in India
(Mumbai, with backups in Hyderabad). At present, the AI’s work is processed outside India by
Anthropic, and we plan to move it to India. Sign-in codes and push notifications also use
services outside India. Our privacy policy names each of these
providers.
What the AI matchmaker does and doesn’t do