Is MeAndWho Club for LGBTQ+ people in Bengaluru?

Yes. Gay, lesbian, bisexual, queer, trans and non-binary adults are welcome, and you meet only people looking for someone like you.

In short

Yes. MeAndWho Club welcomes adults of every gender and orientation who want a serious relationship in Bengaluru. You say your gender and who you would like to meet, and you are introduced only to people who are also looking for someone like you. Those answers are never shown on your introduction card or sent to the AI, and nobody can browse or search members.

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How does matching work for LGBTQ+ members?

The same rules as for everyone, checked in both directions.

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  • Your gender, in your words. Choose Woman, Man or Non-binary, or describe it yourself.
  • Who you would like to meet. Pick any of Woman, Man and Non-binary. You can pick more than one.
  • Both ways, always. An introduction is only possible when each of you is someone the other wants to meet, and your age ranges and dealbreakers fit both ways too.
  • A person checks. During our pilot a person reviews every introduction before it reaches you, and a chat opens only if you both say yes.

The matching rules in detail

What stays private?

Your gender and who you want to meet are used to find people, and nothing else.

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  • They are never shown on your introduction card, and there is no profile anyone can browse or search.
  • They need a separate consent before we use them, which you can withdraw. Turning it off takes you out of matchmaking.
  • The AI matchmaker never receives them, and it is not allowed to ask about, guess or record anyone’s sexuality.
  • Notifications never show names or messages on your lock screen, for example “You have a new introduction to look at.”
  • You decide what appears on your card: every shareable answer is off until you turn it on.

Privacy and safety in detail

Will there be enough people for me?

Maybe not straight away, and we will say so plainly.

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MeAndWho Club is opening in one city so introductions can be good ones. For some groups, the pool will start small. The app shows when your pool is still building, introductions come only when there is a good fit, and we won’t offer paid membership until at least 15 suitable, verified people are looking for someone like you.

Every member passes a phone check and a live selfie check, and one face can hold only one account, so the people you meet are real people with one account each. Verification can’t tell you how someone will behave, so meet in public and trust your instincts. You can report or block anyone from an introduction or a chat, and they aren’t told who reported them.

Questions LGBTQ+ members ask

Who can see my gender and who I want to meet?

No one browses profiles on MeAndWho Club, and these answers are never shown on your introduction card. They are used only to find people who are looking for each other. A person is introduced to you only if you each match what the other is looking for, and the AI never receives these answers.

Can non-binary people join?

Yes. You can choose Woman, Man or Non-binary, or describe your gender in your own words. If you describe it yourself, you choose which group you would like to be matched as, or you are matched as non-binary if you skip that choice. Anyone can say they want to meet non-binary people.

What if there are not many people for me yet?

We tell you. The app shows when your pool is still building, and we don’t offer paid membership until at least 15 suitable, verified people are looking for someone like you. We would rather wait than introduce you to someone who doesn’t fit.