The club opens in one city first, so the people you meet live near you. For adults 18 and over in Bengaluru who want a serious relationship.
MeAndWho Club works like a matchmaker for Bengaluru (Bangalore), and starts in one city so the people you’re introduced to are people you can realistically meet; it opens first on Android. Joining is free, and there is nothing to pay until enough suitable, verified people are looking for someone like you. Adults 18 and over of every gender and orientation can join; if you live somewhere else, you can get early access and hear if and when we open in your city.
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A matchmaker only works when there are enough suitable, verified people near each other.
So we’re starting in one city rather than spreading thinly across many. We chose Bengaluru, also called Bangalore, because it is a large city with many young professionals, which makes it a good place to build a pool. Starting in one city also means the people you’re introduced to are in Bengaluru too, so meeting them is realistic.
Your pool counts only people who are active, have passed the phone and live selfie checks, have finished their profile, aren’t paused, and fit both your firm preferences and theirs: who you each want to meet, the ages you’re each open to and each other’s dealbreakers. Sign-ups alone never count.
We count suitable people for each member, and we watch each group of people looking for each other, for example women looking for men, or men looking for men, because a city can have many members and still have few for you.
Membership is offered only once enough suitable, verified people are looking for someone like you (currently at least 15). Until then, you can’t be charged, and after it is first offered, introductions stay free for 14 more days.
While your pool is growing, the Home screen says “Building your pool”: “There aren’t enough suitable people for you yet. We’re recruiting, and you won’t be charged until there are.” Read how membership and billing work.
Adults 18 and over who live in Bengaluru and want a serious, committed relationship, of every gender and orientation.
MeAndWho Club isn’t in the app stores yet, and there is no fixed opening date. Get early access and we’ll let you know when it opens. Until then, read how it works, step by step.
MeAndWho Club runs through the app, and the company behind it is registered in Indore, Madhya Pradesh. Read who runs MeAndWho Club.
Like a personal matchmaker, you get a few introductions instead of a feed.
During our pilot a person checks every one. Unlike most matchmakers, you can read and correct every note our AI suggests about you, fit is checked from both people’s answers by the same rules for everyone, and joining is free.
Every member passes a live selfie check, and a chat opens only when you both say yes. Read how MeAndWho Club works, or compare an AI matchmaker with a human matchmaker and other ways to meet someone.
Usually only a little, and your area is never shown to anyone.
The area question is optional, and location currently counts for the least of the five things we weigh.
One question asks “Which part of Bengaluru do you live in?”, with six choices. A follow-up, “Which areas would you happily travel to for a date?”, asks how much that matters to you, from “Doesn’t matter to me” to “Dealbreaker: only introduce people who fit”, and which areas you’d be happy with. In the app’s words: “Meeting is easier when the commute is reasonable. We never show your area to anyone.”
Location is one of five things we weigh when we look for fit in both directions, and it currently counts for the least: what you’re each looking for counts most, then values and lifestyle, then how you like to connect. If you skip the question, it never counts against you, unless the other person has made area a dealbreaker.
Your area is never on your introduction card. Like your other answers that aren’t sensitive, our AI matchmaker can read it when it asks you follow-up questions. The app doesn’t ask for your address or your phone’s location: you choose an area yourself, or leave it out.
Somewhere public and busy, in the daytime, that you can get to and leave on your own.
Once you both say yes and your chat opens, you can tap “Suggest some ideas” for up to three first-date ideas, built only from the answers you both chose to share. Our AI is asked to suggest public, daytime-friendly places, such as cafés, walks in busy parks, bookshops, exhibitions and casual restaurants, to respect what you’ve each said about food and drinking, and never to suggest a private home, a hotel, a late-night or secluded place, or a venue it isn’t sure exists.
The ideas go only to you. Nothing is booked or sent to the other person, and where you meet is up to the two of you. For example (ours, not the app’s), a daytime walk in a busy public park such as Cubbon Park or Lalbagh fits these rules.
These tips come with every set of ideas:
Read more about privacy and safety, including how to report or block someone, or browse our guides to dating for something serious.
For now the club is only for people in Bengaluru. Get early access, tell us your city, and we’ll let you know if we open there.
We plan to open in more cities later, and to choose the next one by where people are waiting. There is no date for a second city yet, and we can’t promise introductions anywhere until we open there.
If you were a member of the earlier MeAndWho Club matchmaking service, you can rejoin with the code from your email or message, under Account, Members of the previous service. Then choose how you’d like to take part, for example “I live in Bengaluru, or I’m moving there” or “Tell me when you open in my city”. Former members who live outside Bengaluru are never charged; in Bengaluru, membership works as it does for everyone else. Read the guide for former members.
MeAndWho Club is for adults 18 and over in Bengaluru, of every gender and orientation, who want a serious, committed relationship. You need an Indian (+91) mobile number for a one-time sign-in code, and a phone with a front camera for the live selfie check. Former members of our earlier matchmaking service can sign up with a code wherever they live. It isn’t for casual dating or friendship. See matchmaking in Bengaluru.
MeAndWho Club is getting ready to open in Bengaluru, first on Android through Google Play, with iPhone to follow. It isn’t in the app stores yet, and there is no fixed launch date. Get early access and we’ll let you know when it opens. Until then, you can read how it works.
A matchmaker only works when there are enough suitable, verified people near each other, so we’re starting in one city: Bengaluru (Bangalore), a large city with many young professionals. Starting in one city means introductions are to people you can realistically meet, and membership is offered only once there are enough suitable people for you. When it opens, it will be open to anyone 18 or over in Bengaluru who wants something serious. See matchmaking in Bengaluru.
Not yet, and it hasn’t opened in Bengaluru yet either: when it opens, MeAndWho Club will be only for people in Bengaluru, and signing in needs an Indian (+91) mobile number. We plan to open in more cities later, choosing the next one by where people are waiting, but there is no date. Get early access and tell us your city. Former members of our earlier service can sign up with their code from anywhere and ask to hear when we open in their city. See matchmaking in Bengaluru.
Your part of Bengaluru usually matters only a little, and only if you tell us. An optional question asks which part of the city you live in (North, South, East, West, Central or the outskirts) and which areas you’d happily travel to for a date, because meeting is easier when the commute is reasonable. Location currently counts for less in matching than what you’re looking for or your values, a skipped answer never counts against you unless the other person has made area a dealbreaker, and your area is never shown to anyone. See matchmaking in Bengaluru.
Yes, former members can rejoin: sign up, then enter the code from your email or message under Account, Members of the previous service. Choose how to take part: in Bengaluru if you live there or are moving there, or ask us to tell you when we open in your city. Former members living outside Bengaluru are never charged; in Bengaluru, membership works as it does for everyone. You can also invite 2 friends in Bengaluru, though a friend doesn’t need a code to join. See for former members.